Fried Green Tomatoes

Fried Green Tomatoes are truly a southern delicacy.  One of my favorite lunches of all times, is a fried green tomato sandwich with homemade pimento cheese, bacon, lettuce and tomato. YUMMY!



  • Oil
  • 4 green tomatoes, cut into 1/4-inch rings
  • Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
  • 3/4 cup all-purpose flour
  • 1 tablespoon garlic powder
  • 4 eggs
  • 2 tablespoons milk
  • 1 1/2 cups panko bread crumbs
  • Pinch cayenne pepper
  • Pinch paprika
  • Buttermilk Dipping Sauce, recipe follows

Buttermilk Dipping Sauce:

  • 1 cup apple cider
  • 1 tablespoon brown sugar
  • 3/4 cup buttermilk
  • 3/4 cup mayonnaise
  • 2 tablespoons Neelys BBQ sauce
  • 1 lime, juiced
  • 4 scallions, sliced thin
  • Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper


In a deep-fryer, preheat oil to 350 degrees F.

Season tomatoes, on both sides, with salt and pepper. Place flour and garlic powder in a shallow dish. In another shallow dish, beat eggs with the milk. In another dish, mix bread crumbs with cayenne and paprika. Dredge tomatoes through the flour, then the eggs, and then through the bread crumbs. Add only a few pieces to the fryer at a time, so they can cook evenly, about 2 to 3 minutes. Drain on paper towels and serve with Buttermilk Dipping Sauce:

Buttermilk Dipping Sauce:

In a small saucepan over medium heat, combine the apple cider and brown sugar. Allow to reduce until thick and syrupy. Remove from heat and allow to cool.

In a medium bowl, add buttermilk, mayonnaise, BBQ sauce and lime juice and whisk well. Add in the scallions and the apple cider mixture. Cover and refrigerate until ready to serve with Fried Green Tomatoes.

Bald Head Island, NC

Living in North Carolina my entire life, I am not sure how I spent a lifetime, no more than 2 hours away from Bald Head Island and never managed to discover this amazing treasure.  It is truly one of North Carolina's best kept secrets.  It has a look about it that makes you feel you are on an exotic island in the Caribbean....or maybe even The Hamptons, but with charm and beauty that only the south can provide.  Well, let's face it - I am biased to southern hospitality.    I have always had a love affair with the coast of North Carolina, but this little gem has deepened that love just a little more.  

Growing up in North Carolina, I have heard whispers of Bald Head Island.....of how there are no cars on the island and how you must take golf carts and bikes to get around.  I always thought this sounded kind of intriguing, but again these were only whispers.  I always thought of Bald Head Island as a private island, only to be discovered by invitation.  While this concept is absurd,  this is not a place that boasts about itself or markets tourists by the masses.  Once you see the beauty for yourself you will understand why.  

I was on a day adventure in Southport, NC (which is an amazing story all on its own) and I decided to see what all the fuss was about in Bald Head Island.  I tossed Shadow (my beloved brindle pug) in the car and set off only two miles to the Deep Point Marina.  As I pulled up at the Marina, the feel was immediately different - like I had just landed in another place - like I was already on "island time".   Travelers unloading luggage, bikes, and beach chairs.....almost every family with their dog in tow.   As I stood on the deck waiting to board the ferry, families were all talking to each other - talking to other families.  Kids were meeting other kids, asking each other where they were from, how long they were going to stay, as they planned meeting on the beach once they arrived. So many people came over to pet Shadow, asked about him, where we were from and went on to share a little about themselves as well.  I felt like I had stepped back in time...before cell phones and wifi....when vacations were a time to bond with family and make new friends!!  As I boarded the ferry, I was even more anxious to see what was in store for me at Bald Head Island!

Once on the ferry, everyone was still chatting and enjoying great company - other than a few teenagers, I didn't really see anyone with their phones.  The family next to me and I talked - they were from the triangle area near Raleigh - about 2 hours from my home in New Bern.  We learned that our sons had played lacrosse against each other this past school year.  There must have been a hundred people on the ferry and at least 30 dogs, and for that 20 minutes across the Cape Fear River it was perfect harmony.....I felt like I was in the middle of a novel and the adventure was about to unfold. 

As we approached the island, the main thing I noticed is how preserved everything seemed!  The gorgeous beach homes all appeared to be strategically placed within the trees and the shoreline.  It was almost as though they had been there all along, as part of nature.  You could see families and friends sitting out on their decks, having drinks by the water, riding bikes, and enjoying the beauty surrounding them. 

Once we docked and disembarked the ferry, lines of golf carts waited with drivers to load up luggage and families and take them to their homes.  If you are just visiting for the day, or want a cart to keep for your stay – there are cart rentals available hourly or weekly.  So, Shadow and I hopped on a cart and set off to explore.

The first thing I noticed, were the beautiful tree-lined paths, each taking you to another part of the island. 

Bald Head Island stretches 14 miles of pristine beaches and maritime forests all able to be explored by golf cart, on bike, or on foot!  While you won’t find any shopping malls, restaurant chains, or stop lights - Bald Head Island has no age limit - there are plenty of fun activities for kids,  families, couples, girls weekend, and seniors throughout the year.  During the summer,  Bald Head Island Conservancy offers children’s camps that feature arts and crafts, science fun, crabbing, shelling, and learning about the islands unique ecosystem.  The Shoal’s Club offers  family fun, volleyball, and bocce ball.  Families can also join the Sea Turtle Patrol and search for nesting sea turtles. Efforts to protect sea turtles on Bald Head Island date back to 1980. Since its founding in 1983, the BHI Conservancy has coordinated and sponsored the Sea Turtle Protection Program, in cooperation with the North Carolina Wildlife Resources Commission and the National Marine Fisheries Service. Bald Head Island has been designated as an “index beach” by NMFS, making our sea turtle nesting activity and Protection Program nationally recognized. 

Get a better view of the island and climb “Old Baldy”. Old Baldy is the oldest standing lighthouse in North Carolina, celebrating 200 years this year! Built in 1817, the most important purpose of Old Baldy was to mark the Cape Fear River entrance for the maritime sailors.  It was never intended  as a light for Frying Pan Shoals.  It was originally built of red bricks and covered with stucco.  In the early days, the innkeeper would white wash the lighthouse every two years.  The white wash protected the stucco and when it was deactivated in 1935 large pieces of stucco began to fall off.  Occasionally someone would come along and patch the lighthouse with new stucco, however, they did not use the same stucco that was used in 1817.  Today Old Baldy resembles and old patchwork quilt – in 1817 it was completely white.

While some older guests may not desire climbing to the top of Old Baldy, they will likely enjoy Smith Island Museum that takes you back in time, through the history of Bald Head Island. Did you know that Bald Head Island was the home to a British fort and hospital during the Revolutionary War?  That during the Civil War several Confederate gun emplacements helped secure the mouth of the river?  That in the early 1900s visitors came to the island to hunt wild pigs?  Take a tour of the island and take a glimpse into the history of Bald Head Island from its first appearance on maps in the 1500s to the development of the island in the 1980s.

Sometimes we need to just get away alone!  You can visit the adorable island library, grab a book and curl up in the sea oats somewhere or you can relax at the Island Retreat Spa and Salon for some pampering.  You can take some time for a pedicure, facial, or massage to recharge!  The Maritime Market is also a great breakfast place for early risers of all ages and everyone loves the seafood omelet and crepes. 

Grab your gal pal and enjoy a tennis match at the Bald Head Island Club or meet the fellas at the golf course for a few holes before taking a tandem bike ride with your Sweetie, for dinner and drinks at Mojo’s on the Harbor!  Or rent a couple of kayaks or a canoe and explore the island view by boat.

There is also fishing, swimming pools, surfing, and much more.  No doubt about it, everyone can find something to love on Bald Head Island.  There is no need to worry about what to expect.  Even if you keep your schedule open, taking in the stunning scenery will keep you busy and make it a trip you will never forget!